Today I want to
quickly cover a SIMPLE, but very effective technique that guys
use to create attraction with the women you meet:
HUMOR
Whenever they do one of those polls asking what women want in a
man, humor ALWAYS comes up in the top 3.
And if you looked carefully at any 'attract and seduce' course,
you'll find that most of the information covers laughter and how
it builds attraction.
Whether it's called cocky-funny, teasing, negging or sarcasm,
HUMOR is critical to your success with women.
But many guys get it completely wrong when they try to be funny
around women.
In order to get them laughing and attracted at the same time, you
have to understand the principles. That's why it's important to
follow these 4 RULES of humor:
=====> RULE #1: Don't be a Clown <=====
Being funny NEVER means acting like a clown.
Acting this way will make you seem like you're doing a "Try
Hard". This is when a guy is obviously trying to make a woman
laugh.
This will lowers your social status and makes you seem like
you're desperately seeking her approval. Furthermore, when you
do slap-stickey humor, women will be laughing.
But it'll be AT you, not WITH you.
Sure, comedians can get women laughing, but they almost never get
laid!
=====> RULE #2: Tease Her <=====
5th Graders can be pretty smart sometimes. At this age, if a boy
likes a girl, he'll pull her hair and call her names.
Now I don't recommend pulling her hair (for now), but TEASING
women is probably the best way to use humor. This doesn't mean
being a jerk. Instead it's about treating her in a way that shows
you're NOT afraid to be yourself and tease her.
You can tease her by:
Giving her a nickname
Mocking her voice
Playfully messing with the things she's
saying
Teasing a woman is a great way to assume
familiarity. If you just met her, and you're
ALREADY teasing her, this can help you
quickly break down that uncomfortable period
where you're getting to know one
another.
=====> RULE #3: Use Your Body Language <=====
Look at the great comedians and you'll
see a common pattern...They all know how
to use their entire body to tell a joke.
They'll make facial expressions, use props,
gesture with their hands and use
EVERYTHING they've got to make people laugh.
Again, you don't want to be a clown
around women. But remember your BODY LANGUAGE
can add congruence to the things you're
saying. So as you're teasing her, you want
to establish physical contact in a way
that's showing that you're a guy who is
not afraid to play around with her.
This can include:
Playfully swatting her
Pushing her away, then
pulling her back into a
hug
Doing games like
'thumb war', and
'hand slapping'
The point here is
to use your humor
to break the
touch barrier while
making her laugh at
the same time!
=====> RULE #4:
Do Other Things
<=====
Humor should be a
spice that
flavors a
conversation. It
shouldn't be the
main course.
When you're ONLY
teasing and making
women laugh, you're NOT
showing the other
parts of your
personality. That's
why it's important
to do other things
that'll help you
build and maintain
attraction.
So while you're
making her laugh,
you also want to:
Establish
physiontact
Build deep rappr
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Tell stories
Doing all of
these things will
help you seem more
well-rounded and
interesting!
When it comes to
creating
attraction, humor
can be your MOST
effective tool when
you're talking to a
woman. So make
sure you're getting
it right! By
following these 4
rules, you'll create
that fun, flirty
vibe that's always
helps you get the
girl.
Want to learn a
PROVEN WAY for flirting
and
sexually
attracting
women? If so, take a
look at Steve
Scott's
Flirting
Guide which
provides a
step-by-step plan
for flirting with
women!